Fetish Goth and aesthetics: BDSM gear

“Spice things up in the bedroom!” We have heard a lot in the list of advices that is given to couples. But nobody really tells you how to. BDSM is an extra way to do that we are mostly not unfamiliar with the topic (until and unless you are living under the rock, then you need to Google it my friend).

Anyway, here are some ways in which bdsm, ddlg and bondage related toys can really spice up your life in the bedroom. 

Disclaimer: This page promotes save and consensual sex. Please read up before experimenting and remember to establish a safe space for both the partners. 

• Lingerie 

This is the easiest one on the list. If you are a fair new beginner, the idea restraint or spanking may really sound like a bad idea. Start with really good, comfortable lingerie. Don’t listen to Barney Stinson, it works like a charm. Also, wearing lingerie is just not about showing skin but being comfortable in your skin so in so that you want to appreciate it. 

• Restraints

Restraint pants/bottom wear/upper wear are absolutely gorgeous to take your lingerie game a bit more refined. These are really a lot of fun. Especially because it enhances your curves and almost makes them irresistible. Imagine walking with these on in front of your partner and they just stand there, awestruck (we know everyone loves that feeling!).

• Spanking accessories

We are not again, unfamiliar with the idea of spanking - some like it just HARDER. If you are a butt person or love being spanked(like me 🤐), then I highly recommend the right spanking accessories.
Of course, you are allowed to pick your poison based on how you like it, we nonetheless ask you to establish a safe word.

Btw, These LOVE paddles pictured below are the most "pg" version spank paddles available.  Click the picture to see what other non pg words we have that may be more suitable 😉

• Choker necklaces

“choke me daddy!” is far easier to work with when you have these on! These mostly also come with rings so that instead of hair, the neck can be grabbed with two sensations going on at once. These are easier to procure and are also available in many ranges. From the nice belt ones to spike studded necklaces that can add to the thrill of it all.

These bdsm / ddlg collars also serve as great dog collars for the more advanced pet freaks. Has daddy walked you today?

• Handcuffs

You must have guessed this must have been on the list kind of long ago but handcuffs just have that thing about them. They add to the factor of complete restraint and even to the thrill of being tied. However, we would recommend you first try tying your partner in a lose knot with maybe a tie to understand if you or they are comfortable with the idea of being tied. Nobody wants Gerald Games to be repeated in their life.

If you want to explore more, just  click here. The right BDSM Gear, when used correctly and can lead to times of explosions in the bedroom.... Quite literally.

However, always remember to have safe space for it. Also, let us know if you want a second blog on more BDSM gear. This has just been a beginner’s guide for those of you who wear wondering how you could add a little fuel to your bedroom activities.  🔥

Stay safe, ya’ll.